Crossraods

There are many times we come across crossroads in life, when we have to make a decision...... a decision which can influence your personal life.....career path.....your life style as so on.... Everyone has to take a stand at times .....sometimes we have to make sacrifices....and sometimes our decisions hurt some people very close to us....
Sometimes when we come across a pot hole or a road block we tend to regret our decision of taking that particular route .... We never think that may be this is the best path for us.....may be the other roads we would have walked were to be even worse..... I think when we come across such situations we should not think - "Why did I do it?" or "How did this happen to me?"..... These are the testing times which come in everyones life and we need to find a solution to it ..... we should stop cribbing and crying and think ...... Ofcourse we think.... but we always think of the past.....we always do the pre-situation analysis and come up with answers like -"If I would have done this....". I think success in any business, career or in a relationship depends a lot on how well one can do a post-situation analysis and come up with a solution which works there and then......
The worst kind of crossroads come with the people you love the most....and at these crossroads your mind says something and your heart says something else.....i would say in such situations go with what your heart says.....because love aint Maths or Finance.... it has nothing to do with the mind......May be you think what your heart says is hard and the escape route is much more convenient.....But, who said being is love is easy.....
As Galib has said-
"Yeh Ishq nahin asaan Galib
ek aag ka dariya hai
Aur doob ke jana hai"